People have taken up to online dating just like a duck takes to water because it works or, at the least, it could work. Women are, generally, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about will be the scary things that may happen and, I have to say, a right is had by them to be cautious to the extreme. That’s not merely wise but vital. Therefore what’s a good guy to accomplish? You aren’t a bum, a predator, or a weird guy. You are a good man looking for “the” girl for you.
You must show patience. Don’t press her for private information like her actual name or where she lives. Keep your conversations fun and light until she feels comfortable speaking with you on line. Don’t be in a hurry for asking her for meeting face to face. She will think that you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be honest on the subject of your appearance and job. A good relationship hasn’t been, and can never be, built on deceit and lies. Eventually, she will find out the truth, and there you are back again at square one anyhow.
One picture is worth one thousand words. Post many images of yourself doing all your everyday actions and make sure they are full body photos, not head shots just. If you were dating a woman in real life, she wouldn’t simply see your head.
Once the conversation starts going smooth ask her for a meeting face-to-face for the very first time, suggest that you meet up with in an exceedingly public place, during hours of sunlight and that she can get a close friend with her. In the end, you have nothing at all to hide. You’ve told her the reality about yourself, and she’s seen a whole lot of pictures of you already.
The one and last thing left is to create her feel secure meeting you.